Have you ever felt like the relationship you thought would make you a better woman only caused you to feel lost and worthless?
Many unsuccessful relationships can really put a strain on how a woman feels about herself. I'm not just talking about a domestic violence relationship, I'm talking about any situation that happens in a relationship. Whether you lose connection with each other, grow apart, unfaithfulness...etc. Any of us can start questioning whether we gained too much weight and he didn't like it, whether health issues mades your sex life suffer and your fighting all the time about it, threatening to cheat on you because your not being what he wants, or just flat out being distant. Any of these can cause us to look in the mirror and start pointing out all the flaws we have that our partner may not like anymore. We start to feel worthless, unattractive, we look at other beautiful ladies and say damn why cant I look like her. We barely put makeup on anymore and our regular outfit everyday is jeans and T shirts.
I have learned from experience that putting ourselves through all that misery because of whats going on in our relationship can only tear it down more. Our insecurities get the best of us. So start little by little telling yourself everyday that your worth it. Sometimes we have to realize that we should not let ourselves go for anyone. In the end we will always know how to love ourselves better then anyone. I know this sounds harder to do, but whats the worse that can happen. Its always best to show yourself and your partner that no matter what happens in a relationship, you will always be strong and confident. We need to all gain strength in believing what we are worth. Great things will happen.
SO if you haven't, get up tomorrow, pick out a nice outfit and put some makeup on, do your hair different and definitely go somewhere..lol.. walk with your head up and smile. Whats not to smile about... We take for granted the smallest things in life. And we shouldn't because they can be taken away any minute. Smile because your alive another day and that means another chance to be a better you.