This subject I'm sure all of you have been through at least once in your life.
Letting Go is the hardest thing you can do in your life. Its when all the memories you created with that person, all the Love that grew in your heart you have to throw away. Letting Go can either break you or make you.
We have to come to realize that we cant keep suffering in pain, we cant keep living in doubt and most of all you cant keep being in a relationship that the other person doesn't want to put in the work. Staying with someone that doesn't own up to their wrong, blames you for all the wrong is a red flag I'm sure we have all seen. But when you love someone so much beyond what you thought you could it breaks your heart to give up. It breaks your heart to have to walk away. But is it worth the pain? We try so hard to help them even in someways too much. The worst is when all the energy and time has been Put in, all the sacrifices you took and that person turns their back on you. Makes you feel worthless, makes you feel like were they really with you for you or with you for the opportunities.
So many reason you have to leave, whether they cheated on you, disrespected you or just plain treated you like crap. BUT your heart is so invested in loving them that no matter how many times they called you names, hit you, left you stranded, etc... Your faith in them never leaves. Your praying for them to change at least a little. You pray that one day they will see all you have done for them and they will show you the same love and devotion in return. Until that day the last day that you either fought, argued or found out they cheated, that your heart just tells you no more. Tell you to let go and move on. You cry so much, days even because your mourning on the death of your relationship. Your so hurt that you feel as if your dying inside. You start to feel numb and even if someone could slap you right now you wouldn't feel it. Worse part is when they look into your eyes for the last time and they seem cold. They look at you with disgust as if the sight of looking at you turns their stomach. That pain of looking at someone you love so much gives you the coldest reaction is what I believe can be the worse feeling in the world.
The next day your in bed and you feel like whats the point in getting up, whats the point going on in life, you made this commitment to spend the rest of your life with this person, you planned your future based on them being right next to you. Now tomorrow is just you. next month its just you next years its just you. I question all the time why REAL relationship always have to end so bad.
Now this is some advice that I can actually give because not only have I been in this situation but I know many of you are going through it or feel like its about to happen. Know your worth!!! If you invested so much time in someone and only for them to make you feel like you did nothing then you know this isn't for you. As much as it hurts believe me it does. Time will come when you can wake up and feel better. Wake up and you wont think about them. You will wake up and smile because you still have another day, another chance to get your life back. Don't throw your life away for someone that isn't crying about you. Isn't thinking about you and damn sure is probably doing their own thing with someone else. If they loved you even being separated they would still talk to you , they would make sure your ok at least. But its not going to happen so don't waste your time. Its easier said then done. but I learned something from the movie Eat Pray Love. When you miss them, miss them but then let them go. If you need to cry, cry and cry it out and then let them go. It will get better its just right now feels like it wont but it will. Your worth so much more then being with someone that hurts you. They don't deserve you. Love yourself more everyday and it will get better..
I hope this helped you and remember to stay strong. Its hard but God didn't create us to be broken so just know he sees what we are going through and the way he created us, we can handle it.