Ugh!!’ I hate the way I look in these jeans
Ugh!!! I hate that my hair doesn’t curl like that girl on the YouTube video.
Ugh!!! That girl at work is so pretty. I wish I was that pretty.
Majority of us women are always to busy envying other women’s beauty and not appreciating our own. I can admit I’ve been there. I’m not ashamed of saying it because I know myself and I’m learning what to fix everyday. I’m so focused on a certain kind of beauty that I forgot about my own. My mom tells me the other day that I have a unique kind of beauty. And that half of the time I don’t see how some people look at me.
Ever since I had Tristan (second Son) I have had so much problems losing weight. I have a thyroid condition that causes me to gain weight fast and hard to lose it. So just take a second to imagine what I go through daily.
I look back at pictures and can’t imagine how I didn’t like my figure. How I thought I was so fat. Now I think I’m huge and that I would give anything to look how I looked a year ago.
However I’m not embracing my beauty at all. I didn’t appreciate what I had in the past and now all I was doing was wishing to go back to it. I never stopped for one second to look at me now. To embrace what I have now, what people see that I don’t see.
I have been reflecting on myself and realizing that it’s not all about how I look. It’s my presence. How my positive spirit always makes other people feel good. I’m beautiful and I am a wonderful woman of God. Can’t get better then that :)
Ladies take a moment to love yourself. Whatever u want to fix, do it. If u can’t right now it’s ok. It will happen. If you need help reach out to people you trust. Above all look in the mirror and instead of pointing out all the imperfections you don’t like. Point out what you do like.