Sun, May 31, 2015

My identity- Strong, Good hearted, Insprirational amd BEAUTIFUL.

The most important part with this is that knowing who you are as a person.

It's very difficult to find yourself at any age. I can honestly remember being 16 and not having a clue what to do in my life. All I knew was that I wanted to be beautiful and work. At 21 after having my first son really made me feel even more lost as a woman. Not knowing completely how to be a mother or even a role model to a little boy that depended on me was nerve wrecking. Being 25 and realizing I didn't accomplish all of my goals were also questionable. I had completed a lot but in my eyes not everything being completed was still like failing to me. It happenes to all of us. I know who I am as a women more and more today because I stop living for everyone. I started to live and just be me. Becoming a mother again opened my eyes more. Made me appreciate the miracle of life. I started to warm up to the fact that being me, having this kind of heart, thinking this certain way wasn't being a misfit, I was being who I really was.

I always hated myself for having such a huge heart, for wanting to always help others, to see their success more then seeing mine. And it really sucked that I couldn't except myself because all I kept running into was people taking advantage of me. People using me just for their needs. I began to lose myself in being so hurt. Until one day I realized that who I am will always be who I am. And I will come across people that will try to take advantage and I will do my best to block them away. I will continue to be me. I will not let them change me because of who they are and what they did to me. I will keep my head up because I will move forward. My identity is so important because it puts a stamp when other people see what I do, who I am and it's so awesome to me when people that have done me some especially realizes what a great person I was.

I didn't try to be in fear of what others would think. I know I am a great person so worrying so much was a waste of my time. Any identity you chose to be is up to you. But love it because you love it. Not because anyone else loves u that way. So where is your identity? Look deep into who you are and become that. When you embrace who u are, your embracing in a new life.

MADAMEJULIEVET

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